Tracy RuhlingAttorney at Law · Estate Planning

About Tracy

An Attorney Who Listens First.

Estate planning should feel like a conversation with someone you trust, not a transaction with a stranger in a suit.  A compassionate approach to difficult decisions makes all the difference.

Rooted in Long Island

I grew up on Long Island, and I've spent my entire career here. I know this community — its families, its neighborhoods, its values. When a client sits down with me, I'm not just their attorney. I'm their neighbor.

With over 20 years of estate planning experience, I've helped hundreds of Long Island families — young couples buying their first home, parents with young children, business owners, retirees — create plans that give them real peace of mind.

I'm committed to making every client feel like family. That means taking the time to ensure you truly understand your plan and your documents — not just signing on the dotted line, but walking away with confidence.

My approach

I don't believe in one-size-fits-all estate planning. Here's what you can expect when you work with me:

Plain English, always

I'll explain every document, every decision, and every option in language that actually makes sense. No jargon, no confusion.

Your plan, not a template

I take the time to understand your family, your assets, and your goals before I recommend anything. Your plan will reflect your life.

Personal attention

You'll work directly with me — not a paralegal or an associate. I handle every client personally, from the first call to the final signing.

No pressure, ever

I'll tell you what I think you need and why. Then the decision is yours. I'm here to inform and advise, not to upsell.

Education & credentials

  • Bachelor of Science, BiologyThe Pennsylvania State University, University Park
  • Juris DoctorSt. John's University School of Law
  • Admitted to practiceNew York
  • MemberNassau County Bar Association
  • MemberNew York State Bar Association — Trusts & Estates Section

Giving back to Long Island

I'm proud to be part of the Long Island community in more ways than one. I volunteer with local legal aid organizations to provide free estate planning consultations to seniors and low-income families who might not otherwise have access to these services.

I also speak regularly at community events, libraries, and senior centers across Nassau and Suffolk counties — because I believe that everyone deserves to understand their options, regardless of whether they become a client.

Let's talk.

The best way to understand what I can do for your family is to have a conversation. Schedule a free, no-obligation consultation and let's get started.